♥Everybody Hurts

Monday, October 31, 2011

12:00 AM

Flaws.

Cher Lloyd

See that girl there? She's got loads of haters, but why hate her? She's not even a threat to you, she didn't say anything offending too. One thing I'd say is, haters are just jealous because the person they hate are more successful than them. I can't say that everyone is perfect, not everyone is. If you try too hard to be perfect, you might face loads of obstacles that will fail you. FAIL. So, why try so hard to be perfect? When you could be YOU. But if you want a change, do it in a healthy way. Not the other way. Don't change for people, change for you. If you hate your attitude, like if you're bad or mean, then change. There's always a chance to be a better person. God forgives you, but sometimes the people around you don't because maybe your hurt them BAD. Think before you speak. The words you say might hurt people, you wouldn't know. Remember that, when you try to bring someone down, you're also bringing yourself down. It's called Karma.

Look at Demi Lovato, she tried so hard to be perfect, and look at what happened? But now, she's stronger than ever. People get back up on their feet, people get strong again. People break down and cry , it's not because their weak , they've just been strong for too long . I know how it feels . I know how it feels to cry yourself to sleep , to have everyone's backs turn on you , to not have anyone believe in you , sometimes to even tear up in public , those times where you think of everything and categorise yourself as a failure in life . It sucks to feel like that , I know. But like I said, we've all got flaws. You may see someone and you'll think that they're happy , but that's all bullshit. They're just smiling to hide the pain that they have in them. But the thing is, one day they'll get used to it and slowly the pain will go away.

Like for me? This year has been such a bad year for me. But I still thank god everyday for blessing me with the right friends and family that has been there for me through out all those times where I wanted to just breakdown. I think that it's all a test from God , to see how strong I am. But I'm done being strong , I can't do this any more . I'm happy that , everything is getting better each day. I still remember how broken I was during July till around Sept. I still am, but not that bad any more. I can't believe that people turned their backs on me, lied to me and betrayed me. Families are important right? But some people chose their friends over family, how could you live with that? How can you forgive that person? I can't , but I did. Because I can't afford to loose more people in my life any more.

Nicholas Sparks ; You’re going to come across people in your life who will say all the right words at all the right times. But in the end, it’s always their actions you should judge them by. It’s actions, not words, that matter.